Well, you are all set to meet someone for date. But have you done a reality check regarding the fact how good you are at communication?
Smart communication is important in dating, In fact, it is almost impossible to have any kind of relationship without it. Communication plays the vital role in bonding, everyone should accept it, and it have to be very smart! You need to be able to understand your date.
You may be very smart but you never know what caused a break
Take for example. Suddenly you relationship is in vein because you did not respond or your partner did not answer you. Communication is not one sided task, you need to understand a lot and act accordingly, and Silence is annoying! You should adapt different ways of expressing which should be in the interest of your partner. Make the moment interesting in your own innovative ways.
If it is not interesting you won’t get attention
Make the person you are talking to feel secure by offering a lot of support and appreciation. This gets the silent types to open up more and feel at ease. Feeling anxious can mess up your confidence and attention. Take deep breathes when you feel like you need to end the conversation because of fear and never use offensive vocabularies and expressions. It is very disrespectful and cheapens your personality. The ability to communicate effectively means that you have to pay close attention and also listen very carefully. We all have different method of communication.
Compliments are superior but you don’t want to exceed it. Complimenting a person shows that you like what you see and that he/she made a good conclusion. A woman loves it when they can have a high self esteem, so you will be making her feel good when you do so. Just don’t overdo it because if you do, she may sight you as soft and weak.
