Single Women Attract Unavailable Men

Ever heard of a relationship pattern? A relationship pattern is a set of negative events that repeats in your relationships on a regular basis. For example, if you are single women, you may have a pattern of attracting unavailable men. These men may not seem unavailable when you meet them, may in fact seem to be people who are very much interested in a relationship, but yet within a short time turn out to be unavailable.

You don’t go into a new dating situation intending to attract an unavailable man; in fact, you intend to attract only available once. Yet that is what happens repeatedly and you are seemingly helpless to stop it.

If you are coupled, perhaps you have a pattern of interacting in a certain way with your partner that creates distance or withdrawal either on your or his part. You most certainly don’t go into the interaction singles dating intending to create this pattern, and yet that is what happens and you are seemingly helpless to stop it.