If you’ve never tried something, how will you know whether you like it or not? It’s important to experiment in bed but we all know different strokes suit different folks – particularly when it comes to things such as spanking and S & M. That’s why we’ve listed some cautiously kinky sex kicks for you to try. Whether you’re a ‘mild girl’ or a ‘wild girl’, you can test-drive some of the spicier sexual practices – without getting burnt.
Rough Sex
For Mild Girls: Not quite as advanced as S & M or even spanking, rough sex involves smacking each other around in the sack. That doesn’t mean you should whack your man in the face – but there’s something sexy about being tossed onto a bed and ravaged by kinky sex your lust-crazed lover.
Bring out the semi-brute in him next time you get it on by initiating tough love yourself. ‘Nice’ girls aren’t supposed to be rough in bed, so you’ll both get excited when you play the tigress and your touch is anything but tame. Try nibbling on his earlobes, tugging at his hair and squeezing his butt (hard) while he thrusts into you.
Dirty Talk
For Mild Girls: A few well-placed, seriously dirty sentences during lovemaking can drive a man wild. But if you’re not comfortable with dirty kinky sex talk, why not write it down instead? It’s often easier to express naughty thoughts when you don’t have to look the person you’re talking to in the eye. You could send him a filthy SMS or an e-mail, or even surprise him by slipping a note into his pocket, saying something along the lines of, ‘Last night was awesome but tonight I’m going to ride you like a pony…
For Wild Girls: Once you get the hang of writing naughty words down, you’re likely to become more comfortable with them – hopefully to the point where you can say them aloud in the sack. Wait until you’re well into a kinky sex session, with both of you hovering on the edge of orgasm. Your bodies are flooded with sex hormones and he’ll be far more likely to let loose.
Making a Sex Tape
For Mild Girls: If you’ve considered making a kinky sex tape but been put off by the thought of having your romp come back to haunt you, set up a camera and tripod to film yourself while you perform a sexy striptease for your man – ensuring your undies stay on. You’re in charge of the camera and under no pressure to do anything you don’t want to. When you’re finished, you can review the tape, edit out any less-than-fabulous bits and hand it over to your man as a sexy surprise.
For Wild Girls: If you’re with a man you trust completely and not fussed about recording your kinky sex exploits, start by investing in a camera that has night vision – in case you want to shoot in the dark like Paris Hilton – and a tripod. Sex up your ‘set’ by clearing away clutter next to the bed, and drape scarves over any harsh lamps to create a more flattering light. When you’re ready, let the X-rated action begin. Remember, watching it when you’re done is always fun but you don’t have to keep it. If you’re uncomfortable with its existence, you can always delete it after a view or two … and make another one tomorrow.
